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I don't hate you or anything. You're not a bad person, you mean well. I just don't want to read about and be bothered by the drama anymore.

In the time I have known you, you have been in conflict with several men who I am closer to than I am to you, and this last case of it is really bugging me. I don't claim that you are entirely wrong in your assessments of people, though I am convinced you are at least partly wrong, and are coping with things badly, at least mentally if not always in action.

In every case the root of the issue seems to be your need to attempt to be a knight in shining armor to women who can/should be dealing with their problems their own damn selves. Exact situations vary, but you seem to justify these feelings to yourself and others by exaggerating the problems and villainizing the men involved, sometimes making situations worse. There are people who find you creepier than those you villainize.

I though I'd tell you this because of your post about people "self-filtering" themseves from your inner circle or even your life, and how you're watching for patternsin your life. I'd been feeling like I should self-filter myself from you somewhat, and now feel I should point out the pattern that I see that led me to feel that way.

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kiteless
Jul. 12th, 2006 03:03 am (UTC)
I really don't think I could have said it better myself. Thanks for being a voice of reason in all this. I totally understand why you are so important to so many people. :D
shadows_harem
Jul. 17th, 2006 01:50 pm (UTC)
I told him that it was my own damn fault, that I was confiding in him as a friend, that I was dealing with it myself, and that he was *NOT* to get involved (I think I mentioned the final part 5-6 times before he went off and did his thing).

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